tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5953699780393457554.post1052250196796737302..comments2013-05-29T18:49:37.535+01:00Comments on cherish live love: reliefUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5953699780393457554.post-61029984890863969922012-07-24T00:42:06.608+01:002012-07-24T00:42:06.608+01:00Hello :) I bet your a much better mum than some o...Hello :) I bet your a much better mum than some of those hair straightening- I- candy pushing, conservatory building mamas anyway!! Having a preemie changes people, and if you ask me, it's not always for the worst. Of course, we have to work through stuff but I think we are all the better people because of it, trust in your process, you're a great mama!!diary of a premmy mumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13829424922988781001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5953699780393457554.post-80241876326156656552012-07-17T18:55:26.030+01:002012-07-17T18:55:26.030+01:00Oh my dear dear mummy friend.
We are all here for...Oh my dear dear mummy friend.<br /><br />We are all here for you, we've been in a similar place to you, lean on us too.<br /><br />You will get better. You will move on from this time, at your own pace, with help. You won't always feel inferior, robbed and cheated.<br /><br />You are a beautiful, brave mummy with a darling little man and a wonderful husband, and in time you will be able to enjoy life again.<br /><br />Minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day.<br /><br />And I mean it, don't be a stranger. I am 3 years on now, and I love where I am in my head but it took a long time to get here.Kykareehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00316100979546486127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5953699780393457554.post-74944546021278863932012-07-16T21:58:06.874+01:002012-07-16T21:58:06.874+01:00I am really glad for you that you opened up to som...I am really glad for you that you opened up to someone who understood and could well be a wrock over the coming months. You have nothing to be ashamed of and are far from failing.<br />5 months is such a short space of time. I remember when we came home, it was ages before we went any further than blasted ASDA! It's not easy, but it is better in the long run to take things at your own pace. Counselling helped a lot. She once said to me "Would you put a car accident victim in a racing car straight away?" and I guess the point applies. You can't just shake it off, much as you might want to, and actually, 90% of the yummy mummy brigade have problems too. When I finally plucked up the courage to talk to the normal ones and then begin to make friends, I found that nearly everyone had something that was not going to go away. We were all just trying to put a brave face on and didn't notice.<br />It isn't forever, and you won't always feel like this. And Skittle wouldn't mind even if you did! xx<br />ps. that rush of love thing is an urban myth (I have decided). It took me months to accept and really love without fear and that very fact hurt more than anything else. It doesn't make you a bad mummy or less of a parent. You're not just a parent, you're a human too xmousehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00573595683899488691noreply@blogger.com